Why More Money Doesn’t Feel as Good as You Think It Will
Approximate read time: 9 minutes Most of us have some version of this story running in the background of our lives. When I lose the weight, I’ll feel better. I can finally relax once I get that promotion. When I find the relationship, I’ll feel secure. When I make enough money, everything will click. These […]
What to Do If You Win the Lottery (Even If You Never Play)
Approximate read time: 10 minutes Most of us have played this game before. What would you do if you won the lottery? The answers usually come quickly. Pay off debt. Buy the house. Take the trip. Help your family. Quit your job. Sleep for a month. It’s a fun fantasy, and for good reason. Imagining […]
Why You Can’t Stop Thinking About Money (And Why It’s Not What You Think)
Can’t stop thinking about money There’s a very specific kind of tired that comes from thinking about money all day. I hear people tell me the pain of:“I’m not doing anything about it.”“I can’t stick to a plan.” Just… thinking. You check your account.You run the numbers in your head.You replay something you bought three […]
You’re Not Broke, You’re Just Overwhelmed: How to Stop Overspending Without Shame
Ever found yourself swearing off spending… while simultaneously clicking “Add to Cart”?Or wondering where your money went, even though you’re sure you haven’t bought anything major?You’re not alone. And you’re not broken, lazy, or bad with money. But you might be stuck in an overspending spiral. And here’s the truth no one tells you: Overspending […]
How to Manage Money When You’re Burned Out
What to Do When Financial Tasks Feel Impossible (and Why You’re Not Failing) If you’ve ever said something like: “We seriously don’t even have five minutes to talk about money.” “Every minute of my day is already spoken for, and then things keep happening.” “We’ve just got too much going on right now to deal […]
Why Traditional Budgeting Doesn’t Work, And What to Try Instead
“Make a budget and stick to it” is one of the most common financial tips out there. Budgets are also one of the most misunderstood, misused, and misapplied tools in personal finance. If you’ve ever felt like budgeting should work but doesn’t (like you’re doing something wrong, or you just lack discipline) you’re not alone. […]
Why Budgeting Doesn’t Work (Especially when you’re overwhelmed)
You’re Not Lazy. You’re Overloaded. It’s November. The lights are twinkling, your inbox is exploding, the kids need costumes and cookies, and someone just brought up travel plans. Again. You know your finances need attention,but every time you open a spreadsheet or log into your bank app, it feels like a tidal wave. You tell […]
Why Couples Fight About Money (And What You Can Do Instead)
Why couples fight about money and what to do about it Why Do Couples Keep Fighting About Money? Even couples who love each other deeply and communicate well in most areas can find themselves stuck in the same argument,again and again,when it comes to money. You’re not alone. And you’re not doing anything wrong. But […]
How to Talk About Money With Your Partner Without Fighting: 10 Skills Every Couple Needs
Financial Communication for Couples You’re great at communicating in your relationship… Until it comes to money. Then, it’s silence. Or stress. Or that same exhausting fight that never gets resolved. This isn’t because you’re bad with money. It’s not because you’re emotionally immature. It’s because most of us try to solve relational problems with system […]
Revenge savings isn’t petty… it’s power.
Revenge savings The best payback is peace of mind and a fat savings account You ever look at your bank account and think, damn, I wish I could return the last six months of choices? Maybe it was the shopping sprees that felt like freedom… until the regret hit.Maybe it was the way you kept […]