You want the same things...
So why does talking about money feel so hard?
For high-earning couples who feel stuck, avoidant, or out of sync with money.
This isn’t a communication problem. It’s a tools problem.
10+ 5-star reviews
Couples financial coach
The stakes are so high... what happens if you stay stuck like this?
You’re having the same money conversations over and over again
…and somehow never actually resolving anything
One of you wants to talk about money more than the other
…and it’s starting to feel like chasing vs avoiding
You make good money, but it still feels unclear or stressful
like you “should” be further along than you are
Small decisions turn into bigger conversations than they need to be
and now everything feels loaded
You’re not sure how to plan together without stepping on each other
so things either stall out or default to one person
You avoid certain money topics entirely
because you already know how that conversation ends
You both care about your future, but don’t feel like a team financially yet
Why smart couples still struggle with money and what to do about it
If this were just about discipline, spreadsheets, or “doing the right thing,” you’d already have this figured out.
The problem isn’t that you’re bad with money.
It’s that no one taught you how to navigate money together.
How couples financial coaching actually works
- Start with a free info session
We’ll talk about what’s happening, what you’ve tried, and whether coaching is the right fit. - Build your shared money language
We’ll identify the patterns underneath the conflict, avoidance, resentment, or “why are we like this?” loop. - Create systems that work for both of you
You’ll leave with tools for spending, saving, planning, and having money conversations without turning into goblins.
- Start with a free info session
“I don’t know that I can express how important Hanna’s counsel was to me and my wife. We struggled to figure out how to talk to each other about our financial priorities and Hanna set us up with the tools to be able to make these conversations productive and work for us.”
-Igor Dobrosavljević
Transform your relationship with money.
You don’t need more discipline. You need a way to talk about money that doesn’t make you both want to leave the room.
I’m not here to referee your relationship, crown one of you “the responsible one,” or hand you a sad little budget and wish you luck.
My job is to help you understand what’s actually happening underneath the tension… and build tools you’ll actually use when life gets lifey.
Access personalized strategies without shame or restriction.
We’ll work together to custom-build not just communication strategies, but strategies for your spending, saving, investing, and debt that will work for BOTH of you.
Build changes that actually stick.
Long before we talk about a single dollar amount, most of my clients are already making long-term, positive changes to their money behaviors… while never feeling restricted, obligated, or judged.
Build a shared money language.
Most clients start making meaningful changes long before we ever talk about exact numbers without feeling restricted, obligated, or judged.
Not ready to book an info session yet? Start here:
Get your free guide:
10 Skills Every Couple Needs to Talk About Money Without Fighting
This quick, clear resource gives you actionable steps you can take right now to build safety and clarity in your conversations.
I understand your struggles with money.
You both deserve a healthy relationship with your money.
10+ 5-Star Reviews on Google
Featured at TEDx Spokane
Schedule your free info session
Here’s what we’ll do in our financial coaching for couples sessions:
We’ll start by getting clear on what each of you wants, what feels hard, and what keeps getting stuck.
From there, we’ll build:
- a shared way of talking about money
- systems for spending, saving, and planning
- and tools to have real conversations without spiraling or shutting down
From that point on, we’re a team.
I’ll bring strategies, tools (and sometimes games), and help you build something that actually works in your real life.
Eventually (here’s the best part!), you won’t need me anymore!
But don’t worry, I’m not going to hand you a workbook and disappear! When you two are comfortable with how you’re spending, able to trust yourselves and each other, and having fun talking about money, then I know we’ve succeeded!
FAQs
What does a couple's financial coach do?
A couple’s financial coach helps partners navigate money conversations, build shared goals, and develop practical systems for spending, saving, and decision-making. Trauma-informed coaching specifically focuses on collaboration, not blame, and often includes communication support, mindset work, and customized strategies.
Is financial coaching the same as financial therapy?
No, though they can complement each other. Financial coaching focuses on practical tools, communication, and goal-setting.
Financial therapy goes deeper into psychological patterns and trauma. As a trauma-informed coach, I often help clients with the emotional side of money, but I’m not a therapist.
Can financial coaching help if we’re always fighting about money?
Yes! In fact, money fights are one of the most common reasons couples work with me!
I’ll help you understand what’s beneath the conflict and teach you tools for having calmer, more productive conversations without falling into the same old traps.
What if one of us is really anxious or avoidant about money?
That’s okay. Many people have complicated histories with money. I take a gentle, non-judgmental approach to coaching, and we go at a pace that works for both of you. You don’t need to be “on the same page” to get started.
Can we do financial coaching before we get married?
Absolutely! Premarital financial coaching can help you start your life together with clarity, confidence, and shared systems. It’s a great way to align values and avoid future stress.
How can my partner and I move quickly through coaching?
Perhaps counterintuitvely, if you want to move quickly through this work the best thing you can do isn’t to “be coachable” or “trust the process”, it’s to be gentle first with yourself and then with your partner.
How is couples financial coaching different from couples therapy?
Couples therapy focuses on the relationship as a whole and may explore deeper emotional, psychological, or relational patterns. Couples financial coaching focuses specifically on your shared financial life: how you talk about money, make decisions, build systems, and repair trust around financial choices. Coaching can complement therapy, but it is not a replacement for therapy.
Can financial coaching help high-earning couples who still feel behind?
Yes. Many couples I work with earn good money and still feel confused, behind, or weirdly stuck. High income does not automatically create shared systems, emotional safety, or clarity. Couples financial coaching helps you understand where the money is going, what each partner needs, and how to build a financial system that fits your actual life.
Do we need to combine finances before starting coaching?
No. You do not need to combine finances before coaching. In fact, coaching can help you decide what level of financial togetherness makes sense for your relationship. Some couples combine everything, some keep things mostly separate, and many build something in between.